Middle School Discovery-Parent Orientation Information
beginning Well
You’ll notice that we require all group members to attend a brief screening visit prior to starting group. This is because research and our experience show that the likelihood of success in group increases significantly when kids get to meet the group leader, see the group room, and learn about the process before they actually start group. We hope this meeting is the beginning of some exciting work together!
how we measure progress
We consider progress in different settings:
Inside the Group- Are problem behaviors happening less often? Are desired behaviors occurring more often? Is the child participating more? Are interactions with peers improved? Is the child more confident?
Outside the Group-Are social interactions improved at school and in the community? Is the child happier? Do they show improved frustration tolerance and self-control?
Progress usually occurs inside the group first! Progress outside the group usually follows. Don’t forget to look closely for changes in your child. Our philosophy is to notice and reward even the smallest positive change. This fuels future change!
ending well
Group members form bonds as they learn and grow together. Others in the group become a source of support, guidance and security. Because of this social and relationship element of group therapy, we always recommend that members attend at least one “goodbye” session when they end group. It is never recommended to abruptly stop group therapy!
Here are some of the things that happen in a final group session:
Addressing positive feelings about the experience
Addressing negative feelings about the experience
Recognition & Rewarding of progress
Saying Goodbye to friends made in the group
setting goals
We’ll talk with you and your child in the beginning of the group experience about goals. It is important to agree upon the things we’d like improve in your child’s life. This section will introduce you to some of the tools we use in setting and working toward goals.
how long does group last?
Our Middle School groups are ongoing, running continuously with a few 1-2 week breaks periodically. Each individual member spends the amount of time in the group that they need based upon their situation. It’s very hard to predict how long a teen will need to be in group. Our minimum recommended involvement is 3 months of treatment.
We work together with parents to determine how long to continue group therapy.